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January 11 – Nadi, Viti Levu

Coming off the plane a warm humid blast of air greeted us with a firm “Bula” which in Fijian means “Hello / Welcome”. After some confusion as to who our driver was, we were directed to a group of 4-5 men, leaning against a bright red wall. One of them jumped up and informed us that he was our driver when we said “Beachside Resort”. Due to the jockeying of different taxi drivers for our custom we weren’t sure if this was the right person to take us to the right hotel and yet, we dutifully waited for his return. We breathed a premature sigh of relief when he pulled up in a white van marked “Beachside Resort”. We climbed in and set out driving through Nadi in the intense tropical sunlight.

For the first time during our trip we felt like we had truly landed in a foreign country. Whereas Aussies & Kiwi’s are probably vehemently disagree, we found both Australia and New Zealand more similar than different in mentality and first impressions, but here we were driving through areas that felt definitely third-world: structures without roofs, stores without doors, and passing buses and trucks which belched out gaping clouds of grey smoke - hanging in the air long after the offending vehicle had passed. Suddenly we felt like unseasoned travelers. There was what appeared to be poverty juxtaposed with resorts aiming at the traveler with $$.

We drove past a McDonald’s with manicured grounds, which looked pristine by contrast and we proceeded through a residential area. Marieke wondered why we pulled off the main road, as there seemed to be a distinct lack of resort-like structures. Then we turned left onto a dirt one-lane farm road speeding past fields that were dotted with the occasional structure that served as a house to someone. David leaned over and said what Marieke was thinking: “and they were never seen again…” At about that time the high grass flanking the road opened up, revealing that we were driving parallel to the coast. Small resorts began to pop up and we thought “aha” as we sped past them. At length we came to the Beachside Resort.

We got into our room, which was comfortable yet basic and decided to take a walk down to the beach. In order to do this, we had to walk back up the dirt road to the next resort and go through their property to access the beach. It was low tide and pools of water gathered around sand banks, which formed bridges to walk out to the receded water’s edge. Here we shed our flip-flops and waded out into the shallow warm water. In the distance the sun cutting through clouds, brightly lit the foreground causing it to stand starkly against the distant mountains and even more distant graying skies.

We made our way back to the hotel and arrived just as one of the musicians was drumming out a fanfare to announce Happy Hour. It’s all about timing. And so we thought it was time for a few drinks. As we sat down with our Happy drinks the musicians played the guitar and sang traditional Fijian songs to the relatively empty terrace. David had secretly booked a massage and surprised Marieke when the girl from reception and announced that our masseuse would be showing up in 1/2 hour. Time as Albert Einstein informed us, is a relative thing. And time it seems moves differently here in Fiji for it took Ann, our masseuse, quite a bit longer than 1/2 hour to arrive, but she also massaged us for quite a bit longer than the 1/2 booked. She was quite a character— an earth mother with a mischievous streak who seemed up for fun. As the musicians played and clapped she danced into the area where the massage table was located. Massage: what a lovely way to begin the “decompression” leg of our journey.

Dinner followed, fresh fish in a wasabi cream sauce with salad and mashed sweet potato. We finished with ice cream rolled in roasted coconut. We got some tips from our bar-tender/waitress on basic Fijian words, like Bula (hello), Vinaka (Thanks), Kere Kere (Please), Sega na Leqa (No worries). And then we went up to our room and journaled the day.

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January 12, Octopus Resort – Waya Island

Bure 15 is our little hut away from home made of traditional rough-hewn beams and thatch. The only things that have a modern appearance are the doors and windows (oh and the ceiling fan & lights). From our bure we hear the sound of the crashing ocean, some 30 feet outside our door. To get to the water, one has to cross over our little porch, past the hammock, the sun loungers and over the pristine blond sand. And then…warm water of varying shades of blue: bright turquoise, aqua, pale blue and dark blue mixing as the water stretches out to the horizon.

We’re staying in a picture-postcard of Paradise. Although there’s not a palm tree right outside our door, there’s one next door and we feel that’s fine. As a matter of fact, spending time here, you begin to feel that most things are fine and you’re swiftly taken up with an island attitude of Sega na Lega (no worries).

On arrival, a small group of local Fijians greeted us as our taxi boat drove up onto the sand, for us to depart to the resort. We were told not to worry about our bags and then escorted past the bar and pool to some chairs in the shade where we were offered fresh tropical juice and given a mini-orientation. A wonderful lady (Meriani) let us to our bure and showed us the bathroom with open air shower (open to the sky).

We went back to the dining hall and had lunch. The good here has been fantastic with the exception of the ice cream, it has all been really good and fresh. Marieke learned how to tie the sula (sarong) that she had bought and was given a crash course in the bula dance while David fell asleep on a lounger. We then went for an hour-long massage at FI$30 each – for an hour long massage!! Feeling relaxed to the point of drunkenness we stumbled back to our bure, conveniently located next door, grabbed our gear and went out into the ocean for a quick bit of snorkeling. The coral reef starts only 20ft. into the water and stretch out through the basin of our bay. It was low tide and a wave’s undertow pulled Marieke into some coral. She got a little scraped up, so we got out of the water, found the manager and got some first aid. Then it was time to get ready for our Kava ceremony (welcome ceremony) and dinner. We showed up at the appointed place, asked if this is where it was happening and were told not to worry as it was island time. So we sat down to watch the sunset.

David had his pervasive camera bag and whipped out the camera to take more photos. One of the hotel staff came and said that they were waiting for us, so we hurried over for the kava ceremony, which was not as bad tasting as most people make out. We drank the kava, we were dismissed and it was time for a special dance/singing ceremony that was part of their continued new years celebrations. Then it was dinner. A series of curry-like dishes were served up and we chatted with the people at our dinner table.

After dinner we decided it would be nice to walk back to the bure via the beach, which was dark…so much that we worried if we would make it back. We found our bure and more importantly found the light and settled in for a deep night sleep with the sound of the ocean lulling us off.

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January 13, Octopus Resort – Waya Island

The same sound of the ocean greeted us in the morning. Somehow we didn’t set the alarm correctly (or we just didn’t hear it) and we woke up a little past 8:00 am. We had to be at the Dive Shop at 8:50, so we huddled on our clothes, grabbed our things and headed out the door for breakfast. Pineapple and orange juice awaited us with a buffet containing toast, jams, crepes and fresh tropical fruits. Oh, and coffee for David – happy Dave.

We went to the Dive Shop and geared up for our first dive here in Fiji. We went out to a single motor outboard boat to speed out for 12 minutes to our first dive site: Black Rock. It was the tip of a small peak just reaching above sea level. Around it were corals and fish galore. There were only 5 of us and the guide. We followed our guide swimming against the very slight current and it was lovely. The nice thing about diving with the dive master, was that we could just be “passengers” and we didn’t have to worry about any navigating and/or getting back to the boat. Visibility was good, although for both our taste the guide was moving too fast. As per normal, the 40 minutes of dive time went too quickly and we soon found ourselves back in the boat heading for land.

We had yet another delicious lunch: fresh fish burgers – the best fish burger we’d ever had. The food is absolutely phenomenal, everything is fresh and presentation is great. It’s so good that whenever the time for a meal comes around, Marieke is like a kid on Christmas morning: full of anticipation and excitement about what she’s gonna get.

At 2:00 pm we went out for our 2nd dive of the day. This time we were only with 3 divers and a dive master – small groups are great. The 7 minute ride out to “The Edge” as the reef is called, was choppy but problemless or Marieke who was doped up on Dramamine. The dive turned out to be both quite cool and frustrating. Cool for Marieke as she got very excited about spotting both a turtle and 3 baby white tip sharks. Frustrating for David who had rented a point and shoot digital camera from the dive shop which didn’t perform as he would have liked. Consequently David spent most of the dive wrestling with the camera.

We got back. Marieke fell asleep on the loungers outside the bure, while David went out to toast his back, snorkeling. The SPF 45 didn’t cut the mustard and David’s back looks like an undercover lobster. He was snorkeling with the rental camera to try and get some shots right – one of those places where his tenacity can be counter productive.

Dinner was awesome: BBQ Fijian style. Spicy ribs, lamb chops, salads, you name it, it was there – and good. Being Saturday night, they extended Happy Hour and the manager of the resort hosted a series of games after the bonfire was lit and they performed some fire – dancing. We almost won a bottle of bubbles in the balloon dancing competition. Our salsa-classes paid off, but not quite enough to get us to win.

We decided to come back to our bure where a delicious night’s sleep awaited Marieke – still drowsy from her Dramamine and a night of careful sleeping on his tummy to avoid the burned back waited for Dave.

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January 14, Octopus Resort – Waya Island

Ah the sound of sleeping next to the ocean. Being Sunday, many of the activities are not available as the Methodist missionaries got to the Islands in the early years of European contact. However, having a day off (even on the Island) proved to be quite nice.

We went to church in the local village taking a 15-minute walk over the ridge and down to the Bay opposite the resort. This is home to a village about 200 Fijians. It was slightly overcast, but humid and by the time we all reached the village, we were all drenched in sweat. Luckily, Marieke had borrowed a couple of fans, which really helped during the seemingly service.

The village is a hodge-podge of traditional thatch bures, corrugated tin structures and buildings made of cinder blocks. The effect is that of a shantytown. Many buildings having no doors and almost all having no windows and dirt floors. Still, the people were friendly, occasionally shouting out “Bula” as we passed their dwellings. The church was the building at the end of a sort of mall.

The church had wooden pews and was simply done. We left our shoes outside and women were required to cover both shoulders and knees. Hats and sunglasses were not permitted. The service itself was hard to follow, being in Fijian, but the singing was tremendous. A choir sang harmonized hymns in Fijian that was just beautiful – a mix of what you’d expect at a Methodist church with the more mournful quality of gospel. One elder got up and gave an impassioned speech. He was very emotional, at points bringing himself to tears. We wondered is someone had died or what was going on. Later we found out that Monday the children leave for boarding school on the main land and he was advising them to stay focused on their tasks and go “become more powerful and bring that power back to the village”.

By the time we got back, lunch was being served and we sat down for more great food: cocoa, a type of marinated fish like cervichi – yumyum. We then returned to our bure where Marieke became one with the hammock and drifted off to sleep, while David tinkered on the laptop. It was perfect for a Sunday. Later, we video taped David for a video diary and made our way over to the restaurant to order a cocktail. David photographed the sunset and then it was dinner: a salad nicoise as a starter and a local fish on creamy fettuccine, with grilled veggies as an entrée. After dinner it was movie night: The Illusionist.

We walked home, marveling at the stars and had to go out by the water to sit in the sand and just gaze up for a while. We saw one tremendous falling star and several smaller ones, but the panoply of stars was mind-boggling. And now we write and soon we sleep. The ocean beckons us to sleep with its lulling waves. Night, night.

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January 15, Octopus Resort – Waya Island

We broke our evening’s fast with Tammy and Grant and their daughter, Jessica. It was then time to grab our gear and go on our “romantic picnic.” We got on the dive boat, Bubble Maker, and were ferried around the point to the next beach. They dropped us off with a pack lunch, a bottle of wine, some water, a beach mat and a large umbrella. We supplied towels, snorkeling gear and a camera bag. As the Bubble Maker disappeared round the next point (on their way to recover a lost anchor), the first order of business was to move the umbrella. The guy had placed it back in the woods lining the beach, not on the beach were we could appreciate the view, namely the pristine blonde beach. Then David took some shots and video before we went any farther with tracking up the virgin beach. The only thing that had disturbed the sand other than us and the guy from the boat was the sand crabs who had burrowed out their temporary lodgings. Then we sat on the matt and went wow, this is our beach… for the next few hours. Nothing, no one in sight – only azure and turquoise waters, jagged dark volcanic rocks book-ending the white undisturbed beaches and the woods behinds us. Oh, and the blue sky interrupted by the sporadic cloud.

After appreciating the beauty of the place and how lucky we were to be living this Kodak moment, we did what any self respecting honey-mooning couple would do left alone on an isolated beach, we took a walk.

We went snorkeling for about half an hour and then lunched. The sun was pretty intense and even having you foot sticking out of the shade of the umbrella, quickly became uncomfortable. After lunch Marieke napped and David went off to take some more photos. He found a willing model in a four inch sand crab he christened, “Archibald.” After his close ups Archibald retired to his trailer (a sand hole) and David went back to the relative cool of the umbrella – out of the sun. It was here that we discovered why the guy had placed the umbrella so far from the water – it was approaching. The tide was moving in and when the water touched the matt, David finally caved in and moved the matt and eventually the umbrella back away from the advancing surf. Then we found ourselves in a Fijian time warp. The trip into the village was at 2.30 and we both wanted to go, but neither of us had brought a watch and it felt as thought we’d been on our deserted island beach for ages. We speculated the need to swim or hike back to the resort when, at length, nothing happened. So we laid down, having move the matt back and took a nap. Light dozing lead to the sound of an outboard motor and we loaded up and went back around the point. Some local villagers had come down to the water and we wondered just how alone we might have been for the entire time we were there…

On our return people had gathered for the trip to Nalauwaki, the village on the other side of the ridge, which supplies most of the staff for the resort. The village is home to about 200 people of which about 50 work for the resort. We told one of the staff members that we’d just got back and to wait for us as we rushed off to our bure to rinse off and change. They obliged us by leave without us, so we beat a hasty path over the trail to the village, trying to catch up. We finally did catch them, and we were now dripping with perspiration for the spirited track over the ridge. We were briefed on village etiquette: no hats and sunglasses while in the village and women must keep their shoulders and knees covered.

We were guided through the village by one of the resort managers, Polly. On entering the village a young man blew a conch shell to alert the villagers that we had arrived. Almost all the villagers merrily chimed out “Bula” as we passed. We were given permission to take photographs and most of the children struck poses with thumbs up sign and then couldn’t wait to see the picture in the back of the digital cameras. The friendliness and charm of the people was pervasive and delightful. We ran into Joe who we met on the transfer boat to the island, who recognized us from the boat and was very happy to see us. He asked if we could take some pictures of his granddaughter who he was visiting here on the island. When the tour through the village eventually led to the bure of his daughter-in-law, Joe was there to greet us and we shot a lot of pictures of Mere, his granddaughter with her grandmother; a woman whose expansive energy reminded us of Nasrin.

The kava ceremony commenced; a welcoming ceremony involving the village elders (men only) who officially welcomed all of the guests to their village. A large mat is placed on the ground and everyone sits cross-legged, the villagers facing the guests. The chief / senior elder sits off to one side. The kava is made from a root that is ground up and mixed with water in a large cloth bag, something like a teabag. The result is something that looks like muddy water and has a bitter taste, but makes your lips tingle. The spokesman of the village welcomes everyone and kava is dished out and drunk from a small bowl made out of a coconut shell. Before drinking, the person being offered the kava, clap once, say “Bula!”, drink the bowl in 1 go and clap three times. All of the male guests are greeted first and sit up front, followed by the female guests. The whole ceremony took a little time as there were 33 of us and during the ceremony more of the male villagers arrived. At length they told us to relax, get up and move around.

Then a large group of villagers began approaching in traditional Fijian costume, the men wearing grass skirts over their shorts with large lei’s around their necks. The women wearing brightly colored tops on traditional sula’s (sarongs). Many of the men and women also had the single flower in their hair. They then performed the traditional maka-show: guitar music accompanied with beautiful singing and dancing. The men and women started out with a couple of dances together after which the men performed what seemed like a warrior dance with wooden “pretend” weapons resembling axes. The women performed dances which were much more delicate, almost flower-like. It was obvious that they had put just a ‘tad’ more preparation and rehearsal into their performances than the men, whose performance came across a lot less coordinated and synchronized. However, Marieke found their physiques more than enough to make up for any dance deficiencies.

After the dancing they took a bow and Rai, the mayor prompted us to show our appreciation with another round of applause. Within a couple minutes the women had laid out blankets and covered them with their wears, mostly jewelry made from shells and beads, carved wooden bowls and sula’s. We wandered around feeling the urge to purchase something from each vendor and as it was we spent almost all the cash we had on us, FJ $130. It was a good feeling spending money there. Not only were we getting something beautiful, but the fact that the money was going directly to this by our standards 3rd world village made the shopping experience richer and more satisfying.

We walked back to the resort, chatting with Polly the manager, freshened up with a cold shower and went to dinner: a Lovo dinner – dinner where an entire pig and fish, had been placed in a pit with rocks over which a fire was built. The meats were lowered into the glowing ambers which along with the rocks created an underground oven. The only problem was that both the pig and the fish still had their heads on. The pig especially reminded us of the cute little piglets we had passed right outside the village. It was awkward enough to push Marieke towards vegetarianism (Shelley would say “Yeah”), but the promise of yet another fantastic “Octopus Resort Dinner” pushed Marieke past her concerns.

Then it was off to our bure for what we hoped would be a good night sleep, however, Marieke had gotten quite burned on our trip to the deserted beach (in the shade, despite SPF45). Part of her back was lobster red and radiated heat like the rocks from the lovo. Wet towels served as blankets, attempting to absorb the radiant heat.

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January 16, Nadi Airport – Vitu Levu Island, Fiji

We got up after a restless night of sleep for Marieke. David slept a little better as his back burn had eased a little. We began to pack, got most of it done and headed off for breakfast. It’s always strange to be leaving a place and not knowing if you’ll return or not. The senses got sharpened, your awareness heightened as you try to absorb the impressions, the sites, the sounds, the smells, the ambiance of a place. So was as we left our bure and walked down the path to breakfast. There we joined Tammy, Grant & Jessica. While Marieke continued her conversation with them, David went to the office to check out and to call Mike Neill to confirm our pick-up from LAX. Checkout was certainly done in Fijian time, but it was okay. We went back to the room to finish packing and suddenly it was 10:00 am, checkout time. Unlike our other days at the resort, the sands were flowing through the hourglass quickly. We took our luggage to the bar / dining area, did a little journaling when Tammy joined us. David ran off to take some last photos and it was time for lunch.

We enjoyed our last Fijian fish burgers (YUMMY!!) and then one of the staff members beat out a rhythm on a hollow log right outside the bar area, it told us that the boat had arrived and it was time to board. We gathered our things and went out to the beach were we boarded the little speedboat which would take us out to the resort ferry. A large contingent of the staff including Meriani, Ross (the resort manager), Ben & Rebecca (the English couple), Tammy and other guests had gathered on the beach to wish us a fond farewell. The staff members played the guitar and sang a farewell song while the boat pulled away from the beach and headed out into the bay to the larger boat.

Perhaps it was us, perhaps some of the other guests leaving, but the day before when some guests departed only a few staff members showed up. We were very moved by the sincerity of their farewell. We got onto the boat and waited while the speedboat went back to shore to gather the villagers who were also taking the ferry back to the main island. The trip became very long for David after the halfway point when he realized he needed to use the bathroom. Ah, the curse of a small blatter… Arrival on the mainland was especially gratifying for him, say no more. Despite his discomfort the water was wonderfully smooth which allowed the boat ride (which usually takes 90 minutes) to only take 65 minutes instead.

The van ride to the airport was uneventful. The one military checkpoint that we had past on the way going was still there with the soldiers as cheerful and friendly as any other Fijian we have met. We stayed several hours at Raffles Gateway Hotel across the street from the airport to kill time in a slightly more comfortable environment that the waiting lounge at Nadi International. We spent the time checking email, having a cocktail and having light dinner. Around 8:00 pm we left for the airport and are now waiting to board the aircraft that will get us back to LA, thus concluding our “2nd Honeymoon” / Big trip / pre-baby-making-extravaganza.

So, here we are, seated in the airport at Nadi, with mixed feelings: sadness to be leaving such a beautiful place, which also is serving as the punctuation on our 1-month trip, and excitement to return home to see our pets, friends and resume our regular lives. Looking back over our trip, it’s been an amazing series of journeys, both externally and internally: there is the obvious external journey of visiting 3 amazing countries, practically half way around the world and there are the internal ones of acquiring new skills, overcoming fears and encountering such beauty in these places – the rugged emptiness of the desert in Australia to the ranging mountains in New Zealand to the island paradise of Fiji. It’s hard to remain unmoved or unchanged encountering this. While we were in Auckland a movie was shown in the Sky Tower about the history of Auckland and a Maori historian said that according to Maori myth all lines of humanity form single strands that twist together something like cable. And just being in that place affects the place and even when you’ve left, it doesn’t matter. A part of you will always remain there. Conversely, part of these places will always remain an influence as one of the strands of our lives.

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